Thanks for the prayers and comments folks!
It's been 2 1/2 weeks and still don't have a completed estimate from the Lexus body shop. Initial estimate from State Farm was $14059. But they didn't put it on a lift to look underneath, nor did they take into account paint damage on the right side due to being knocked into tree branches. I saw a few substantial scratches on that side. Their estimate basically calls for patchwork paint repairs, and with Infrared that worries me a LOT.
The Lexus rep told me they'll just cut out the damaged quarter panel and weld a replacement piece in its place. Not excited at all about that. I doubt it's going to be totaled, but we'll see. Not sure I want it back after these substantial repairs, honestly.
Wife loved the car, so we may get another one if we can find same color, and similar options (this was AWD) but may opt for RWD to get better mileage!